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Approach
Clients I work with:
I frequently work with people-pleasers who often seek to fix their own problems, mirroring their habit of trying to solve others’ issues. Initially, they believe solutions will bring immediate relief. However, my successful clients soon realize there is no magic fix. They learn the importance of listening to their own needs and stop seeking external validation.
I’m here to guide them in discovering their own solutions, not to provide quick fixes. This process can be like learning to fish—requiring patience and effort.
I also work with clients who have experienced religious trauma, a separate niche that sometimes overlaps with people-pleasing tendencies. Religious trauma can foster codependent behaviors, reinforcing people-pleasing habits. Clients from either or both categories often need to process past experiences to change how they engage in relationships.
Most of my clients have faced complex trauma, which grants them significant self-awareness. This self-awareness is beneficial as it helps us understand the root causes of their behaviors. My successful clients are willing to slow down, reconnect with their bodies, and stop intellectualizing their emotions. They are prepared to put in the work to see meaningful changes in their lives.
Even if they don’t initially know what steps to take, they recognize the need for change. Together, we explore these needs in therapy, helping them navigate their emotions and create positive shifts. My role is to support them in this journey, fostering a deeper understanding of themselves and a renewed sense of self-worth.
Specialities
Clients I work with may experience concerns in some of these issues:
Self Esteem
Therapy is a powerful tool for enhancing self-esteem. It offers a safe, non-judgmental space to explore and challenge negative self-beliefs. We will work together to uncover the root causes of low self-esteem, such as past traumas or negative experiences, and develop strategies to transform these beliefs and heal your sense of self. Through therapy, you will cultivate a more positive and realistic self-view, adopt healthier coping mechanisms, and ultimately feel empowered to navigate daily challenges with greater self-confidence and resilience.
People-pleasing
Do you often hear yourself saying things like, “Oh, no worries! I don’t want to be an inconvenience,” or “I’m good with anything, whatever works best for you”? If so, you might be neglecting your own needs to keep others happy. Regularly trying to please everyone around you can leave you exhausted, resentful, and ready for a change.
Many of my clients come to me feeling this way. They want to get to the root of their people-pleasing behaviors and understand why they prioritize others over themselves. They’re eager to start communicating their needs in relationships, figure out what they truly need, and set boundaries comfortably.
People-pleasing often develops as a coping mechanism in response to trauma, like childhood rejection or neglect. Those who engage in it usually believe their self-worth is tied to making others happy. In therapy, we’ll explore these behaviors, identify the roles and patterns you’ve adopted for acceptance and approval, and understand how trauma and beliefs influence your need to please others.
We’ll work on recognizing your personal signs of people-pleasing and shifting your focus towards self-care and self-validation. This process includes developing new communication skills, setting boundaries, and challenging underlying beliefs that trap you in ineffective coping mechanisms.
Life transitions
Exploring life transitions in therapy is an effective way to understand and cope with the challenges that arise during periods of change. Such changes can bring anxiety and stress, which therapy can help alleviate.
Therapy offers a safe space to discuss shaken values and beliefs, including questions about identity, purpose, and place in the world. Through introspection and exploration, our sessions will be a space for discovery, helping you find new meaning and deepen your self-understanding.
Relationship issues
Exploring relationship issues in therapy means examining the roles, behaviors, and patterns you bring into your relationships. Often, these factors trace back to past traumas or deeply held beliefs that shape your interactions with others. By identifying and understanding these underlying causes, we can address the root of your relationship struggles.
During our sessions, you will learn new communication skills, establish healthier boundaries, and develop a greater sense of self-awareness. By delving into past traumas and how they’ve influenced your beliefs about relationships and yourself, you’ll gain valuable insights into your behaviors and patterns. Healing these wounds will help you cultivate deeper, more fulfilling connections with those around you.
Anxiety
Anxiety is a normal human emotion, but it can become problematic if it feels overwhelming or interferes with your daily life. Whether your anxiety arises in relationships, social situations, or specific topics, we can work together to alleviate and understand it.
Our therapy sessions will focus on identifying the root causes and triggers of your anxiety, exploring underlying emotions, and past experiences that contribute to it. You will learn new coping mechanisms, accept your thoughts and emotions without judgment, improve your self-awareness, and gain the tools needed to manage anxiety and live a fulfilling life. Let’s embark on this journey towards a calmer and more empowered you.
Family of origin trauma
Therapy for family of origin trauma involves exploring and addressing the impact of negative experiences such as emotional neglect, abuse, or unhealthy communication patterns. It provides a non-judgmental environment for sharing experiences and feelings, recognizing behaviors and thoughts that affect current relationships, and understanding past traumas and their impact on present life. You’ll learn new ways to manage emotional and psychological effects, develop a deeper understanding of yourself, establish healthier boundaries, and heal past wounds. This process fosters personal growth and improved mental health, helping you lead a more fulfilling and authentic life.